## Summary
Eliminates redundant database query in update_memory_by_id_and_user_id. Previously, after modifying the memory object, it called get_memory_by_id which opened a new session and queried again.
## Changes
models/memories.py update_memory_by_id_and_user_id:
- Replace self.get_memory_by_id(id) with db.refresh(memory)
- Return the same memory object that was already modified
## Performance Impact
Before: 2 queries (get + get_memory_by_id)
After: 1 query + refresh on same session
